Flowers, flowers, flowers

Wedding Motto #2: The things you love and care about will surprise you. It's okay.

I heart flowers. I'm surprised by this really because for awhile I thought I didn't. I was convinced I'd just order some flowers on the internet, throw em in a vase, and be done.

But then I saw pictures like this:

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And this:

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I was in love.

With these:

ranunculas. hard to spell, but so pretty image here

You may have noticed I'm also in love with peonies. But we have a September wedding. So sadly those are out.

So that is my current love affair. Now I need to choose some colors...

What about you? Any surprising flower love? Fave flowers?

You can follow my flower pinboard (and all my wedding lovelies) by clicking here

The one where we choose a venue and go with it.

Wedding motto #1: Just go with it.

After a lot of internet research and absolutely zero in person viewing we decided on a venue. Planning from LA is tough, but it also helps us to make decisions and just go with it. No agonizing over five thousand visits to different venues. No worrying that we should see just.one.more. Nope, we made a spreadsheet, weighed some pros and cons, and in the end went with our guts.

So what did our gut tell us?

The Newberry Library with a wedding in the park across the street.

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Here is beautiful Ruggles Hall, where we will have our reception.

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Cocktail hour will be in the lobby with this gorgeous staircase:

no clue who they are, but won't it be fun to have a grand entrance down this baby? image here

Here's another view:

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The ceremony (with the as yet undetermined officiant) will be held in Washington Square Park:

wait till you see my fun ceremony decor ideas...

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So why did we pick it?

• It's a downtown venue, which we really wanted. It's close to the lake, near lots of hotels, and close enough that I can get that law school classroom shot I've been dying for :)
• You can use any vendors you want--huge plus
• You can use a caterer who lets you bring in your own booze. Enormous plus (read more later about our fun "beers where we've lived" plan)
• Sweet non-profit vibe. Their brochure is a word doc. No joke.
• Affordable (for a downtown venue) and comes with those lovely opera chairs!

So there you have it! We booked her sight unseen. I confess my parents took a peek at it and loved it so we aren't totally blind here. It was booked up solid through next August so we will be tying the knot September 22, 2012.

Can't wait.

Mean Lawyer Girlfriend No More!

This Mean Lawyer Girlfriend is now officially an **ENGAGED** lawyer :)

We were at the top of our favorite hike in LA and Doug asked me to be his wife. It was perfect.

Ross Dress for Less, I Judged You

I admit it. I was totally judgey when it came to Ross Dress for Less. I had seen them around over the years and just assumed it didn't have things I would like. I had no good reason for this, no evidence, anecdotal or otherwise, to support my snap judgment. I just thought I wouldn't like it.

It was similar to the way I always went to Target over Kmart. I totally judged Kmart too (and was wrong). I just thought I'd prefer Loehman's or Marshalls and was too lazy to go into Ross.

Well today I proved myself wrong. I had to restrain myself from buying everything in there. (okay maybe not everything). But I spent about $60 and walked away with some pretty rad stuff:

• A Calvin Klein pencil skirt--$7.99 (you read that right) I'm in love
• Fifty bajillion frames (including matting) for about $3-8 each. Yes please.
• Printed linen fabric canvas. $7--for real. Loves it
• Swanky looking printy thing to hang in my office (a splurge at $16.99)
• Microfiber dish clothes in fun, bright prints (my mom and sister will tell you how badly I needed theses)
• Welcome mat area rug thing--$4.99
• Bath mat--$3.99

Seriously, amazing deals. And cute stuff.

So Ross Dress for Less, I apologize for being judgey and will judge no more. You are a quality place and I could have spent far more than I allowed myself.

so if you were judgey like me, do yourself a favor and check them out!

ps--i realize pictures would have helped this post, but i'm lazy

2010 in pictures

Since I love a good dose of nostalgia, here are some highlights from the year:

1. Kicking off 2010 the right way with my favorite people in the world in goodole Anna Maria Island:

Note: these are not all of my favorite people, just two gorgeous ones. All my other pictures involved bathing suits and I wasn't feeling that...

2. Our third and final Barrister's Ball:

4. ITP trip to Cuba!

5. My last Wigmore Follies--The Loanies!

6. Doug and Claire (and lots of other people) graduate law school...

Oh yeah, and Claire and Emily throw a Totally Awesome 80s Grad Party.

We also graduated:

sans ugly gown.

7. Zoe turns one!

and eats her presents.

this tasted much better:

8. Take (and eventually pass!) the bar exam

Here's where we stayed while we did this:

9. Mandy and Tim get married!

10. Travel the world

First, we went to Europe (Paris, Munich, Amsterdam, Prague, Venice) with Rami and Melissa:

my only picture with the four of us. If you want scenery, go to facebook :)

Then, we went to Southeast Asia (Thailand, Cambodia, Vietnam, Malaysia) and Australia (Sydney and Melbourne). Clearly the pictures do not do the tripjustice. It was unbelievable.

Angkor Wat at sunrise.

11. Move to Los Angeles

You can check out our new apartment here and here and here.

12. Fantastic weekend visit with these three:

We had way more fun than this photo would make you think...this was taken while Zoe was mesmerized by the carousel at Griffith Park. Other highlights: the tot lot, Santa Monica Pier, Toast, Sprinkles cupcakes.

13. Start a new job as a real lawyer

14. Lauren and Alan get married!

15. Thanksgiving in LA (because of number 13), which even included a hike.

16. Christmas in Kansas City

No pictures from this one yet, but believe me it was a great week!

It was quite a year. Finished law school, traveled the world, moved across the country, started a new job. I am looking forward to what 2011 brings!

Bedroom Makeover!

So I suppose it is not so much a makeover seeing as it is only just now getting completed since moving in a few months ago. But whateves--since no one reads my blog I can make the titles as lame as I want. :)

The bedroom has been a work in progress. I would still like to add a chair and maybe some things on the wall, but I'm pretty happy with it so far! We have random things on the walls, a rug, bedside lamps, bedding I love, and a fab DIY headboard. All in all not bad considering I lost steam on the whole fix up the apartment thing once I started working ridiculous hours.

Without further adieu...I give you our bedroom.

Today I got these babies:

Jolie table lamp: Crate and Barrel

they were a Christmas present from my lovely parents. Since we were in KC for Christmas, they arrived today, and I couldn't be happier.

here it is in action on my side of the bed:

Notice the self and bhg magazines--highly recommended. and that adorable couple is my grandparents on their wedding day. don't they look happy??

And now the full bedroom shot:

I have no idea how to take pretty pictures and did this at night, which is apparently the worst time to do it. Sorry for the dark photos!

And here is one peering into the room so you (my nonexistent fake audience) can get a feel for how the room looks:

LOVE my overstock.com rug. for reals.

Smells like Thanksgiving!

Tonight I made this:

Pumpkin pie (note this is not mine...if you're lucky I"ll post one when it's done!)

And this:

Pumpkin lasagna (also not the actual one...probably won't be nearly this pretty)

I'm so excited to try them both. Here's hoping they turn out! It's been a relaxing weekend around here. Thanksgiving was at a co-worker's house. We brought stuffing, which turned out alright. I also brought pumpkin bread, which was a much bigger hit (it was probably the 3 cups of sugar and the cup of oil...). The rest of the weekend has been full of relaxation, doc review, shopping, and cooking. All in all a good one. Christmas carols are on in the background to get in the mood. Only thing better would be if we had been able to be with family!

Back to pumpkin night--I made the lasagna for the office potluck tomorrow. The pie is just because.

I used the recipe on the can of pumpkin for the pie. Here is the recipe for pumpkin lasagna, courtesy of the master chef of the Lux family, John:

Pumpkin lasagna

By Wolfgang Puck, Chicago Tribune, Oct. 27, 2004. Originally called Three-cheese pumpkin lasagna

Preparation time: 45 minutes

Cooking time: 1 1/2 hours

Yield: 8 servings

9 to 12 dried lasagna noodles (No-boil noodles work fine)

Bechamel sauce:

1/2 stick (1/4 cup) butter

1/4 cup flour

3 cups whole milk

2 teaspoons fresh creamy goat cheese or mascarpone

1/2 teaspoon salt

Freshly grated nutmeg

Filling:

1 can (29 ounces) pumpkin puree

1 teaspoon each, thyme, sage

1/8 teaspoon nutmeg

1/2 cup each: panko (Japanese) bread crumbs, mascarpone cheese

1/4 cup each: freshly grated Parmesan cheese, brown sugar

2 tablespoons creamy goat cheese

1 tablespoon salt

Freshly ground pepper

For assembly:

1/2 cup each: bread crumbs, grated Parmesan cheese

1. If using dried noodles, heat a large stockpot of lightly salted water to a boil; fill a large mixing bowl with ice and water. Boil the noodles until al dente, about 8 minutes; drain. Transfer to the ice water. Drain the noodles; arrange in a single layer on a lightly oiled baking sheet. Set aside.

2. Meanwhile, for the sauce, melt butter in a large saucepan over low heat; sprinkle in the flour, stirring continuously with a wire whisk. Cook, stirring constantly, 5 minutes. Whisk in the milk; whisk in the goat cheese, salt and pinch of nutmeg. Heat to a simmer; cook, whisking often, until thick and creamy, about 10 minutes. Remove from heat; set aside.

3. For the filling, combine pumpkin puree, thyme, sage, nutmeg, bread crumbs, mascarpone, Parmesan, brown sugar, goat cheese, salt and pepper to taste in a large mixing bowl.

4. Heat oven to 400 degrees. To assemble lasagna, spread a third of the pumpkin mixture on bottom of a lightly greased 13-by-9-inch baking pan. Cover with a layer of lasagna noodles, placed lengthwise side by side, overlapping the edges. Spread another third of the filling over the noodles; top with 3/4 cup of the bechamel. Top with another layer of noodles, the remaining filling, and another 3/4 cup of bechamel. Cover with a final layer of noodles and the remaining bechamel. Sprinkle with bread crumbs and Parmesan. Spray a sheet of aluminum foil with nonstick spray; place it sprayed-side down over the lasagna pan, folding the edges over.

5. Bake until heated through and bubbling, about 50 minutes. Remove the foil; bake until the topping is golden brown, about 15 minutes. Remove the pan from the oven; cool 10 minutes. Cut into rectangles or squares.

Enjoy!